When you keep imagining evil in your heart against your spouse, it results into strife. The source of your fight is the evil thought. So, always have pure thoughts and feelings towards your spouse.
Prov 20:3 says,” It’s a mark of good character to avert quarrels, but fools love to pick fights”.
Your current attitude is a choice.
“Hot temper starts fight, a calm, cool spirit keeps the peace”, Pro 15:18.
Choose to be calm and peaceful with your spouse.
When you keep imagining evil in your heart against your spouse, it results into strife. The source of your fight is the evil thought. So, always have pure thoughts and feelings towards your spouse.